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Title: The Magical Language of Others: A Memoir
Author: E. J. Koh
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Publisher: Tin House Books; 1 edition (January 7, 2020)
Language: English
ISBN: 1947793381
Rating: 4,1     25 reviews

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Review “Koh’s book is a tremendous gift. We’re so fortunate to have this literary reckoning from a tremendously talented writer. The Magical Language of Others is a wonder.” – The San Francisco Chronicle“A haunting, gorgeous narrative…lushly told. Brilliant.” – The Star Tribune“Magnificent. … This is a memoir that needs to be read more than once.” – Seattle International ExaminerThe Magical Language of Others is a masterpiece, a love letter to mothers and daughters everywhere.” – Shelf Awareness, starred review“A powerful look at family, culture, language, and selfhood.” – Book RiotThe Magical Language of Others is an exquisite, challenging, and stunning memoir. E. J. Koh intricately melds her personal story with a broader view of Korean history. Through these pages, you are asked to experience one family’s heartbreak, trauma, and complex love for each other. This memoir will pierce you.” – Crystal Hana Kim, If You Leave Me“In The Magical Language of Others, E.J. Koh writes of the boundary, between anonymity and naming, between absence and abandonment, between cruelty and safety for four generations of mothers and daughters, each speaking with an occupied heart and crossing narrative borders between Korea, Japan, and America.  As a reader, you give yourself over to her narrative territory and the resetting of the borders of lineage, language, and lives lost.” – Shawn Wong, Homebase and American Knees“This memoir broke my heart. The tragedies that filled the lives of Koh’s mother and grandmothers are woven into mythic, magic tales in Koh’s hands. Only by Koh’s grace and mastery are we not crushed by the stories within The Magical Language of Others. I could read this book a thousand times over.” – Sarah Blake, Naamah“E.J. Koh’s The Magical Language of Others grapples with intergenerational loss and love between mothers and daughters across time, war, and immigration. Koh’s painful journey is bridged by her mother’s letters, which she translates, unfolding the language of mothering and tenderness. Koh remarkably and beautifully translates the language of mothers as the language of survivors.” – Don Mee Choi, author of Hardly War“Indisputably brilliant. I read The Magical Language of Others in a single sitting–all the while never wanting it to end.” – Jeannie Vanasco, Things We Didn’t Talk About When I Was a GIrl Read more About the Author E. J. Koh is the author of poetry collection A LESSER LOVE, winner of the Pleiades Editors Prize (Louisiana State U. Press, 2017). Her poems, translations, and stories have appeared in Boston Review, Los Angeles Review of Books, World Literature Today, among others. She is the recipient of The MacDowell Colony and Kundiman fellowships, 2017 ALTA Emerging Translator Mentorship, and is Runner-Up for the 2018 Prairie Schooner Summer Nonfiction Prize. Read more

Customers Review:

Magnanimity. It has been several years since a book compelled me to stay awake into the wee hours of the morning finishing it, and yet E.J. Koh’s extraordinary, magnanimous memoir, The Magical Language of Others, did just that. Eun Ji’s recounting of her relationship with her mother and family over the last 20 or so years exhibits power and grace in poetic (not surprising, given her experience and success as a poet) prose.I particularly enjoyed the description of Eun Ji’s recounting of her experiences persevering, coming of age, and ultimately triumphing. Her journey to forgiveness is a paradigm of magnanimity. Even more riveting, the parallels raised by her description of the lives of her grandmothers brought to mind the incredible writing and stories of Min Jin Lee (Pachinko), Krys Lee (Drifting House) and Crystal Hana Kim (If You Leave Me). I could not offer higher praise.One of Eun Ji’s mother’s letters offers the advice that “[w]hat we see changes according to what we look for.” In The Magical Language of Others, I was looking for a moving story. The book beautifully offers that and then some. It will undoubtedly touch common elements in each reader’s experience, while at the same time providing a poignant context of one woman’s (and one family’s) history, experience, love and compassion.Finally, a note on the audiobook (I so wanted to finish the book to see what became of the Koh family that I purchased it as well): E.J. Koh’s reading of her own memoir is heartbreaking at times, calming at others, and riveting throughout. Highly recommend, and I’m overjoyed that this was my first read of 2020.
An odd family, mentally ill in my judgment. Korean immigrant parents in California leave 15-year-old daughter and slightly older son and move to Seoul for 7 years. Nothing makes sense, the writing is scattered and disjointed, and the overall impression is of a family and author unable to create meaningful connections.
The book itself is beautiful. The writing is sharp, beautiful, painful, and wrenching. When the author discovered her love of poetry, I felt the shift in the memoir was beautifully done. I loved the use of her mothers letters and that there were no easy answers. Relationships between parents and children are wrought and loving and hard–my experiences are different but I appreciated how honestly and beautifully the author got this. I’ve recommended to many friends and students looking to “make sense” of those dynamics.
This is a powerfully poignant collection of letters that is woven into a beautiful tale of love. Though her mother uses loving language in her letters, EJ Koh remains true to her own voice and shows us her perspective and the painful side of growing up without the everyday support and physical presence of her parents. Such a wonderful read.
Did not finish, but what I did read both offended me and disturbed me, and the writing absolutely was not strong enough to make up for that.The first issue I have with the book is that it used a gruesome scene in which a dog catches and destroys a pet parakeet as a plot point almost directly after the book started. To me, tales of animal (as well as children) suffering/torture always qualify as a form of emotional manipulation on the part of the author, unless you are reading horror and you’re expecting that sort of gore.The second issue is that the twisted true story behind this book might be interpreted as “cultural”- the author’s parents got a lucrative job offer in Korea when the author was 15, and left her alone in the US to take that job. The author’s parents literally dropped the author off at her college-age brother’s place to return to Korea and had limited contact with her from that point on. The author’s parents were NOT impoverished when they left- they just wanted the most they could get, and they justified it by saying it would improve their childrens’ lives.I myself am a child of first generation parents from an impoverished background, and my parents are not exactly warm and cuddly, but there’s no way they would just abandon me at 15 to go back to their homeland for a lucrative job, college tuition or not. And as a mother of a 14 year old, the idea of just dropping off my daughter at a college age person’s home (even if it was her brother) and just abandoning her and justifying it by a lucrative job position is outrageous.My big issue with this is not just that it happens, but the book frames it as being more of a cultural thing than mental illness. Believe me, I do understand the cultural importance in financial security *too* well, but this is an extraordinary situation that could happen to a person of ANY culture. And I worry that the readers of this book will just use this whole memoir as yet another way to vilify Eastern Asian cultures as cold and obsessed with material wealth.It just didn’t sit right with me, and I literally couldn’t read the book. It’s just a distant, cold, removed story of a life gone awry, and the translated letters of a breezy unconcerned mother who seemed to be existing on another planet.